Insight into Self-Care
What does this mean – it is our ability to show unconditional compassion and kindness towards ourselves- during the times we need it. It is that willingness to allocate time and connect to the core of who we are – with our strengths, weaknesses – capabilities and failings. It involves using precious time for self-inquiry- healing and growth
Why is this important
It is an essential responsibility for each of us to allocate time for self-care; this is challenging for some of us as we have children in tow and / or work pressures mounting. It almost feels impossible amidst the ever growing chores / duties within each of our setting- whether we live with families or co-habitat as couples or strive through flat mate challenges or brave our way through singledom.
“See If You Can Give Yourself Gifts That May Be True Blessings, Such As Self-Acceptance” – Jon Kabat Zinn
Self-care-allows for insight into self-respect
By allocating time for ourselves – we have a better sense of understanding who we really are
What inspires or motivates
What feels comforting
What makes us shy away or
What makes us uncomfortable
It makes us more aware of our sensory needs
Colours that delight us
Tastes and smells that take us by surprise
Seasons that bring us calm and sights that make us grateful
There is also a wisdom that comes with self- care
It makes us mindful of values we cherish
Inspires us to live by principles we wish to emanate
Goals we intend to achieve
And pathways that work best for each of us
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment– Ralph Waldo Emerson